if you get a wiring diagram you can find the wires for your lights, the switch should still be installed regardless of if your truck has them installed or not. try this.... turn your head lights on and then pull out on that same knob doing that will turn on your fog lights if installed correctly. Its put in that way so whenever you turn off your head lights the fog lights go off as well.
also just because your truck didnt come with them installed doesnt mean the plugs (into the wiring harness) are not there. you may have to buy a harness to get to the plug from the back of the fog light.
for instance all super duty trucks are wired for cab lights but not all have them. the plug for them is located behind the passenger kick panel just below the glove box.... and like i said the switch is the same switch thats used in trucks without them installed.