1.Turbo back exhaust, at least a 3" dp.....after that you can do whatever you want.
2.Gauges. Most important is pyro, since you have a 5spd I would do a fuel psi gauge for if and when you do e-fuel and also install a boost gauge.
3. Intake. Weather its a simple diy setup or a tymar do ont go with a k&n drop in filter.
4. Stronger clutch. Im not a 5spd guy so I dont know where to point you on that.
5. Chip. Alot of on here run a TS style chip with custom tune on here. Some are running DP tuner.
6. Injectors. You will here the names Cass and fullforce alot, Cass owns fullforce and he has a network of dealers such as Complete performance, Beans diesel and a few other. Swamps is another great place for injectors.
7. HPOP. For that I would suggest stealth, they just released the srp1 which seems to be on every 7.3 owners wish list.
8. Turbo. Depending on what you do for fuel side will depends on what ya do here.
9. Intercooler. Alot of obs owners either do a diy setup using a SD intercooler or they have installed a banks intercooler.
I hope this little list helps.