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Oh and my turbo cooler pipes are full of oil also.
The crankcase is vented into the intake just before the turbo. Oil that makes it through the wire mesh filter in the "dog house" on the drivers side gets pulled through the turbo and ends up in the intake piping and intercooler. Is is most likely the reason you have oil in the charge air piping.
I'm leaning towards a bad head gasket since I got oil in a combustion chamber since there's oil in the exaust.
Typically a bad head gasket will allow coolant into the combustion chamber not oil. You end up burning your coolant or the cylinder pressures will force gases into the coolant and you'll see bubbles come out the coolant bottle. Not to mention - the heads on the 7.3 are dang strong. You have 6 bolts per head.
How does the oil in the crankcase look? It sounds like the HPOP is pushing oil into the coolant system somehow. You need pressure to push oil into the coolant especially in a hot engine.
Oil in the coolant... Have you done anything with injectors recently? The injector cups are a known failure point on these engines. Though usually you end up with fuel in your coolant and not oil. If you still have the factory fuel filter setup pull the fuel filter and see if the fuel is dark. This is an indication that you have bad injector seals and high pressure oil is being pushed into the fuel rail.
I have seen a cracked front cover leak coolant into the oil...
Please check you fuel filter and get back. We'll go from there.
Cj