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anser the question.........
Your thread title and first post talk about sexual orientation and showering.
I'm simply stating the obvious..... gays already take showers with others. Once people come to terms that this has already been happening for years, suddenly DADT seems rather stupid..... as does your question and intent of starting this thread.
Now, why don't women shower with men? That's easy... there's two reasons, and they are completely obvious. First, men do have certain "feelings" towards women... and I'm not talking about sexual feelings whatsoever. I'm talking about the reasons why a vast majority of men won't get into a fistfight with a woman. Yes, men do view women differently... even different than other men, or even a gay man.
Second, women also view men differently. Again, I'm not talking about sexual attraction here. A woman wouldn't want to be naked in a room with another man, simply because they would not feel safe. There is the whole rape mentality that many women fear.
So there you have it. Why won't most men get into a fistfight with a woman? Why do women fear being raped? That's why men and women don't shower together.
If it really was sexual attraction, and that was the ONLY reason, then we would have co-ed showers, and would have had them for a LONG time now.