Alot of people from around here as being an pretty easy going guy, and pretty relaxed, some may also know that I've been asking around, well I need help for all of you, and it deals with ex's and friends and such
I was with a girl( I will give you guys the PG-13 verison) and she messed around with my head, said she like two of my bestfriends(who to this day have never been with her) and then dumbed me because as she said "I wasn't the same" and "Wasn't good enough"
Now after dealing with bull#### from the school and talking with other people I left it at that, we were not friends, nor would we ever be.
Along comes a buddy of mine who I've know for about 2 and half years, who is pretty chill, got no problems with, and whom I did respect. He tells me bro's before hoes(bro code for anybody that doesn't know that) and tells me to leave his ex alone ( I had told him about my situation, and his ex had been talking too me, and texting me) and about 8 months after the face we come to this current moment. He is now dating my ex
Now my question is, it worth the time to be friends with this guy? Or should I drop him like a dead fly and leave and just not talk to him again?
Any help is welcomed. I have been asking around, but honestly I don't know what to do
I'd say if he is going date your ex you should have a chance at his ex, after all they broke up what should he care. He's after your ex return the favor.
BTW - Anyone who uses phrases like "bro's before hoes" .......isn't much of a man. It is disrespectful and pretty much ensures that they will end up with the type of woman they deserve.
Yeah I would date his ex, but she is already with somebody, but we still talk from time to time.
See when I say "Bro's Before Hoe's" I don't mean all girls, I means girl (like my ex) who were physco bitches and did crazy ####, but maybe the statement needs to be dropped who knows.
But there is one thing I forgot to say, he did work on my dads truck, and (we will say) stole money from us, and the truck had major problems after that, we just now, and after a few hundered dollars later, finally fixed it
I don't know, maybe I am going crazy
But there is one thing I forgot to say, he did work on my dads truck, and (we will say) stole money from us, and the truck had major problems after that, we just now, and after a few hundered dollars later, finally fixed it
I don't know, maybe I am going crazy
You are learning to pick your "bro's" and your woman a little more carefully now, aren't you? You sound young, and that is a good thing, but looking at your situation from a middle aged perspective, I would say don't get overly attached to any dudes to be considered as bro's until years of time have gone by and their true colors are proven. Trust no one. The ladies... well how can a man resist falling in love with them. Try to remember, life is long and there are a lot of really sweet woman out there. If you are involved with a girl and your instincts tell you she is wrong, then don't be afraid to move on with your pride intact. Good luck.
man I was in the same perdictment after I graduated. We split up and my best friend and her ended up hookin up for like a month, so I went and layed it on his ex and he couldn't stand it and he got back with his ex. I stopped talking to him and haven't said a word to him for over 3 years. My advice is F him he is a D bag. You will find alot better friends trust me man I did! He isn't your true friend that's for sure.
I'm only 18, I turn 19 in July so I'm still young, I know a few guys who I trust, and I've known them long enough to know that they don't #### around like he did, and they know the same thing about me
Thanks for all the help guys
Well as of now, we don't talk, hang out, or have any friends that talk to one another, so basically we've cut ties with one another, but I swear to god, if I ever see him, I will confront him and send some words his way that he won't like, possible even more
My buddy is telling me to go over to where he is and kick the #### out of him, and he'll back me up, but right now I'm waiting, waiting till he dicks around with somebody I know
Why bother? Whats it gonna prove? Trust me, I've been in more fights than i can remember over the years, at the time they all seemed justified but now i look back and think of how much trouble and money i could have saved myself. Do yourself a favor and just walk away, you learned his true colors and as long as you stay away from him you wont get burned anymore by him
Problem is, he is in my area
He always brings the bitch, and his friends to were my dad works, and I've been there a few times, its almost like he is showing off that he got himself another girlfriend, but to be honest I take no interest in it, I just enjoy a beer with friends and my dad, figure out what I want for a truck, and work my ass off
Next thing I bet is gona happen is he is going to show up at my work, THEN I'll get pissed
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