To make a long story short.... I over heard my mom talking. Dad is tired of not having a truck and is going to fix my truck(he gave it to me) and take it back. Don't really know what to think or how to feel about it right now. Kinda hurt and mad because it's not really my fault that the clutch went out and been unable to fix it but he blames me for it going out. Hopefully this doesn't happen but if it does, nothing I can really do about. I was hoping this would help me feel better but nothing yet
Laid off work around the time it started acting up, still didn't have a job when clutch went out, sold my V and B code springs to replace my clutch, had to give that money to my parents for bills, had a clutch GIVEN to me from my cousin, trans is cracked at the mount and needs welded, have no way of getting the tranny to be welded. Dealing with my truck being broke and no job has been hard enough. I don't know what I'm gonna do if I have no truck at all and no job. I considered the military so many times but don't think it's for me. I will be working soon enough though, for my dad here at home doing sandblasting, painting, and liners. Not sure how I'd feel about that work relationship now. He's still my dad though and this wouldn't change the fact that I love him.
sounds like you need to go talk to them, and let them know you overheard the conversation, then let them know how much the truck means to you and you just need to get back on your feet. I think communication up front is key in this situation.
Communication is definitely something I'm not good with! I'm one that doesn't really speak unless spoken to. I heard it come from mom when she was on the phone telling somebody so I didn't hear it come from dad. If it happens I may talk to him about buying it when I start making money again or atleast repay him for what it costs him to fix it. If not I'm sure I can find something else later. I'm not gonna get heart broken, to much, over a truck
None that I would trust to weld aluminum. None are able to haul it for me neither. Yeah things get heated enough just working together around the house. This will be side work for him and I guess it'll be my full time job. His work takes him all over the world so he won't be home to much.
If you join the Military it will be the time of your life, yes boot camp will be a pain, yes you won't make a lot of money, yes you will have to put up with a lot of crap, but you'll make some great friends, see some awesome places, and work on some cool chit and learn alot! Look into the Air Force or Navy
Very true. If you go talk to a recruiter, take someone that has served in the military with you to make sure they aren't trying to BS you into anything.
I wish I did have a buddy that would go with me. Most of them knocked up their girlfriend in high school and tied down. I've almost joined afew times. Once I had an appointment with the army to come back and join but a cousin and friend in the army told me the promises that was made and broke and just how much they hated it. I had the papers for the air force but when I tried to turn them in the recruiter wasn't there. I keep hearing that there's a huge increase in recruits and that worries me because it's going to make it that much harder to get a job that I want. Plus, and I never thought this would happen, but I've met somebody and I don't want to leave her. I talked to her about it when we first started dating and she was ok with it because she knows I want to do something but there's nothing around here for me. I can't forget about my nephew! 17months old and I spend most of my day with him every day. He's crazy about me and it would be hard not getting to see him!!!
I served in the Marines and had the time of my life. IMHO, there is no better training in the world than what is provided by the US military. Correct, the pay is not very good. However, everything is paid. Meals, housing, medical, even get a yearly clothing allotment. Also, there are many benefits with being a veteran. If you have any questions, shoot me a PM and I will do what I can to answer it.
Well man it sounds like your in a touchy situation. I wish you the best of luck on the outcome.
I hate to see anyone down as I have been there myself a few times and if you were closer I would help you out. I have an awesome aluminum welder here that we have used on a few busted transmissions. Never could tell once they were done.
Hey I know I have it a little rough right now but I know there's people in alot worse shape than me. This will eventually pass and things will be going good. I went 3 days without power because of the tornadoes and it would of been easy to complain about not having power but there's people all across the southeast that has nothing left because of them. Makes me really thankful for the things that I do have. I appreciate the thoughts though!
sometimes impulsive moves are what makes a better person. All your reasons are valid, however you sound just like me 10 years ago. Sounds messed up but you have to put your future and goals before anyone and anything else if you want to get anywhere in this world.
Hand your Dad the keys with a smile. He brought you into the this world and raised you to be the man that you are right now. If you do that, you will gain a ton of respect. At the same time, ask him what it will take to get the keys back, let him know that you love and want the truck. But, he is your Dad and he actually knows.
Whether it be Military, College, or McDonald's, make him know that you are trying. Hell, go ask a yard guy if he needs help. Get out there and make a splash that your Dad can hear. I bet it don't need to be as big a one as you think it does, he just needs to know that you actually give a ####.
As far as the girl and the Military go, if she aint willing to wait, she probably aint' worth waithing for.
It sounds like you're definately a good candidate for the military. Quit making excuses though. That's the biggest problem I see with the whole situation. Go out there and do something. You'll never learn a trade sitting at the house wondering how you're going to do this and that.
It sounds like you're definitely a good candidate for the military. Quit making excuses though. That's the biggest problem I see with the whole situation. Go out there and do something. You'll never learn a trade sitting at the house wondering how you're going to do this and that.
I agree 110%. I'm glad I made this thread because I like hearing everyones opinion. I didn't know it would lead me back to wanting to join but it has me throwing the idea around again. I'm looking back at the thread i made earlier this year about the air force. I know the only thing I'm gonna regret is not doing it sooner but I need to find a way to the recruiter or get him here.
If you believe in God a prayer or two wouldnt hurt right now. this is a life defining moment, one you should def get some guidance on. best of luck to you
I'm hearing a lot of control issues here. Either your parents still feel you need direction or you're under 18. Sorry if I missed your age.
Some parents are are the water wing type, they let you swim with training wheels so as to get use to swimming. I'm more of the dump your ass overboard and only grab you by your hair just b4 you drown so you get use to survival. A lesson much more valuable I think.
It's time to sink or swim son, the choice is up to you. Life is tough for us white males, so you get tough or register as a democrat.
Well me and dad had time to talk today on our way to town. He said he needs a truck. He never said anything about taking his truck back which I'm glad about but I would had been OK if he had wanted it back. He wants a cummins. As of right now I'm set on the Air Force and going to talk to a buddy about joining as well. Dad just left for the airport so will talk to them about my career choice when he gets back. Not sure what he would think about it and he's going to be stuck on a plane for 24hrs so figure waiting would be better. I really appreciate everyones input on the matter. Oh and I plan on going into aircraft metals technology if anyone has some input on it that would be great. Thanks again.
Try and get into the Avionics field, the career possibilities and pay are endless when you get out of the military. My buddy was in the Navy for a few years and worked on F18's now he's working on the predators uav's and making just a tad over 95K a year.
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